You’re a magnet, pure and simple, and you know it. You always have. So when that magnetism pulls someone toward you who isn’t quite what you had in mind, back off and be direct. You have little time at your disposal, and you don’t want to spend it on mercy dates, especially when there are so many wonderful folks who’ve also had a taste of your charisma.

Even if your date’s perspective seems totally ludicrous, listen for the underlying message. Although you may not agree with the words, find your truth. This could be the beginning of a great connection.

If it seems like a million little relationship puzzle pieces are floating around, that’s because they are. Don’t try to make sense of it all at once. You’ll both see the big picture emerge soon.

Everything in your day can either hold you back or help you move forward, depending on how your look at it. Even your worst enemies can be used to your advantage with the right attitude. Look at everything as an opportunity.