Sometimes it’s hard for you to hear the truth. Then again, sometimes (like today), it’s even harder for you to tell someone else the truth! But honesty is essential, especially in this relationship. So buck up and do what needs to be done. Whenever a difficult conversation needs to happen, a face-to-face conversation is required. You can’t deliver bad news electronically. It will only add salt to whatever wound your words could inflict.

Sure, you could let your current mood have its way with you, but you could also diagnose it. Figure out where it’s coming from and why. This kind of self-awareness can only help in the realm of romance.

Find some time to sit down with sweetie and really talk. The two of you need to hash out your differences over some issue or idea that really isn’t as important as you think it is.

You’re not a kid anymore. You know you can’t just walk right up to something you want and take it. It may not be immediately apparent, but working diligently is the most direct way to your goals. Easy credit is just a distraction.