You aren’t responsible for making other people happy. You can only support them in their quest to find their own bliss. So don’t buy a ticket for that guilt trip a friend or relative is trying to send you on! Don’t react emotionally to this person’s plight. Your compassion is admirable, but you can’t let it force you to do things you really don’t think are healthy for you. Be a good friend by keeping yourself emotionally healthy and content.

You may find yourself at an impasse, and neither of you wants to budge. But why fight when you could be out having fun? Try giving in to the other person. It’s not so bad! And when you get to spend an evening enjoying each other’s company, you’ll forget what was so important earlier.

Life is pretty sweet for you right now, so find a way to share your good energy with your partner. Do something active. The words and emotions will flow without hesitation.

The hierarchy of your personal life deserves a bit of study. Friends in high places have shifted status, and not necessarily as a result of financial changes. The most unlikely person might need your assistance. Don’t hesitate to offer it once the shock wears off.