You’re not used to being around other people when they’re acting like this — like you do on a daily basis. They’re thinking intense thoughts, not just considering surface stuff, and are actually wondering out loud about things they’d ordinarily take for granted. Nice, huh? Invite one of your new best buds out for dinner and drinks and have a nice, long chat.

Once you find a good match, there’s no need to start picking out china patterns right away. Relationships take time to evolve, so planning long-term stuff might very well scare off the potential for a fun romance.

You’re going to be drawn in even more deeply, and you might just find that your partner has a lot more to offer than just a pretty face. Things are going to keep getting more interesting.

Even you can’t enjoy the job you have to do. At least putting a good spin on it isn’t necessary for completing it. In fact, most people do just as much belly aching as you do, if not more. So drop the facade that you’re having fun and let your real opinion show.