Your feelings won’t always be the same as the feelings of the most important person in your life, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that your feelings for each other are going to dissolve any time soon either. If you find yourself laughing hysterically at a commercial while they’re fighting back tears, don’t fret. It’s a difference you should respect and even celebrate. Don’t take it as a sign that something is wrong. Just let it be and hand them a tissue!

Why are the wrong ones so darn appealing? That’s a great question, but perhaps a better one is why do you always find the wrong ones so appealing? The answer will be illuminating.

Successful relationships are based on hard work and unrelenting dedication. Persevere and your patience will be rewarded. Giving up in frustration will only land you back at the drawing board.

If you’re used to getting your needs met by material goods, you’re in for a rude awakening. But don’t despair. Getting them met by other means is infinitely more satisfying once you get the hang of it.