You’ve been working your fanny off to try to meet a goal, and it might feel like no one has noticed your struggle at all. But before you hop on the self-pity express, stop and think about it. The reason that no one is reaching out to give you a helping hand is probably because they have faith that you can handle it on your own! Don’t assume that people are abandoning you or overlooking your efforts. Keep your head down and don’t worry about who is or isn’t paying attention.

Are you really buying into this wild notion? If so, give yourself a little grounding advice. Step back and listen to your intuition. You may decide you’re on the wrong course, so adjust a bit.

You’re focused on your own issues, but most likely the same is true of your partner. It’s not a bad thing at all. In fact, it will feel great when you’ve blasted through the baggage.

Roadblocks to being understood are crumbling seemingly on their own. It’s actually a result of all of your attention to the issue. You may have felt merely frustrated, but the universe was listening even if no one else was.