You don’t usually ask for help from anyone, and accepting it is tough for you too. If you were to buckle and accept, you’d have to explain to yourself why you couldn’t manage this alone, but realizing that, while you’re the very soul of capability and responsibility, you’re not omnipotent, will be good for you. After all, a dose of humility doesn’t hurt. Your turn? Maybe.

Selfish? You? Maybe just a little bit at the moment, but maybe it’s not such a bad thing. One of the fabulous things about being single is you can put yourself first and treat yourself right.

Running hot and cold on demand is a great feature – for plumbing. When it comes to emotions, you have to develop some equanimity. Playing games won’t be fun or healthy for either of you in the long run.

It’s time to change suits. Arrogance got you pretty far, but it can’t get you out of your current hole. For that you need genuine self respect. Start digging some up.