Just because there are some emotionally charged things going on in your life right now doesn’t mean you can lose your objective reasoning. First of all, things could be a lot worse. Your drama is fairly minor if you look at what’s going on in the world around you. Don’t throw yourself a pity party today. No one likes them very much! If you can keep your sensitivities toned down, you’ll see things accurately. Apply caution when drawing conclusions.

There’s a leadership vacuum in your life. Don’t be shy about filling it. If your pals can’t decide on an evening plan, or your love interest is hesitant to pick a dinner spot, make an executive decision.

Make your finances more interesting by starting a ‘fun fund’ for the two of you to save money for going out. When you reach a certain amount, treat yourselves to something you love.

If only you could feel content and secure again. Actually, you can, and money has nothing to do with it. Dig into an even deeper vein if you want good results.