It’s nice to be diplomatic with people, but sometimes you just don’t have the energy or time to look at things from many different angles. You can’t let your desire to be well liked keep you from getting things done right now. Sometimes making progress means you have to make a few people unhappy, at least for a little while. Being a team player doesn’t mean that you should sacrifice your intelligence or critical thinking skills. Make what you know is the smart move, not the most popular one.

Not feeling great about a recent relationship decision? Maybe you should rethink your choices. If it’s not set in stone, change your mind. It’s important to feel 100 percent sure about the big stuff.

It’s hard not to get your feelings hurt, especially if your sweetie is speaking carelessly these days. But don’t lash out. Pay attention to what was actually said and the intention before you make your reply.

Be careful — overindulging is a serious temptation right about now. Even one day of serious overspending can ruin all the painful frugality you’ve put yourself through for the past several months. Exercise all of your self-control.