You’ve decided that rather than being a follower (even though you’re always extremely choosy about the people you follow), you’re better suited to being a leader. Well, good for you. Bet your appreciative audience will agree, not to mention the folks under your command who’ll be amazed and astounded at your leadership abilities. See? Just because you’re quietly powerful doesn’t mean you can’t be effective.

Firing off a flirty e-mail or provocative text may not be your usual style, but why not just do it? Take a laissez-faire attitude about the response (what happens, happens!) and put yourself out there.

You tend to want to fast-forward in your life and in your relationship, but sometimes slowing down and savoring is definitely the way to go. Force yourself to get deliciously in the moment now.

All the energy is draining out of your drive for success. Can money really have that effect on you? Stop looking at your accounts, and find other ways to stay motivated.