Trying to be perfect is the biggest waste of time ever! Not only does it isolate you from other (imperfect) people, but it also puts you in a perpetual state of frustration. Today, you need to stop going for the gold medal in everything. Start learning how to accept yourself the way you are. Acceptance leads to peace, which will lead you to having a much better attitude about your life. Sure, it’s true that things could be better, but they could be a lot worse too! Get some perspective.

If true love is your ultimate goal, what are you doing now to make it a reality? Romance won’t find you if you’re at home on the couch aimlessly watching TV! Get out there and meet some people. Join a singles group to get the ball rolling.

Keep your relationship radar on full power so you’ll be ready for anything that comes your way, both positive and negative. Be willing to do what it takes to make your love work.

Changes have you feeling a bit insecure. That naturally leads to some selfish urges, which is totally understandable. Don’t let yourself act on too many of them, though. Your need to cover your own bases will fade long before the image of you doing it does.