Getting caught up in the moment can work out well in romantic movies, but in real life you need to act much more cautiously. If someone wants to take you away for a vacation, are you sure you two are ready to take this step? Are you sure you can truly afford that beautiful new car you covet? Wait until you know this person is the right person or until you know this car is worth the price. Neither is going anywhere.

Who doesn’t love flowers? It’s a great time to surprise your crush with a bouquet or send your latest flame a plant as thanks for a nice dinner. At the very least, throw on a floral-print shirt!

Your partner is expecting big things of you. You don’t want to let them down, but you’re not entirely comfortable with how much they’re depending on you to pull this off. Ask them why this is such a high-stakes matter.

You know who’s coming into your life soon, and now is your time to prepare. Treat yourself to something soothing and spare no expense. You want nothing and no one to be able to get a rise out of you by the time you’re done. Now that’s money well spent.