One minute you feel like a wild horse straining to break loose, and the next moment you feel like all you want to do is lie down and take a nap. Your extremes in energy might give anyone who’s trying to follow you a serious case of whiplash, but you’ll be able to handle this roller-coaster ride just fine! Your life is yours to lead as you see fit, so don’t pay any attention to people who are trying to tell you to slow down or speed up. They mean well, but these advice givers are butting in.

You need to plan a getaway. It could be a quick road trip with friends or an international cruise, but there’s nothing like a vacation to reinvigorate your romantic prospects when you get back. You might even meet a new crush abroad!

Being controlling is one of the surest ways to stifle a relationship and halt romance. Make sure you and your partner give each other lots of space and trust. It’ll keep things strong.

You may have had your head in the sand at one point, but no more. You’re almost too perceptive for your own good at this point. Harnessing your new-found sensitivity makes early retirement that much less of a pipe dream.