If anyone is aware of the effect their charm has on others, it’s you. No matter how hard you try to pretend you don’t know what you’re doing, you really are aware of how devastatingly enchanting you are to the lucky person you’ve been lavishing your attention on. If you’re interested, then they probably already belong to you. If you’re not, be merciful. Tell them you were just playing, thank them for a lovely time, and get yourself home.

There’s a reason dinner’s such a classic date. Because it’s a pretty good date! You get to talk, eat, and see what the other person orders. Then you can go home and tell your friends!

Even if you don’t always have tangible proof, know in your heart that your partner loves you more than you realize. It’s something you feel in every fiber of your being, and while that’s not visible, it’s the best kind of evidence possible.

You deserve the friends you have. If you shared the wealth, you’ll have a much easier time finding someone to share your pain with. Don’t hesitate to communicate.