Whether you have an awareness of it or not, your career is going through a transformation now. Talk to one or two coworkers about where they think you could be headed and get some insight about what might be in store. You’re in for a lot more than you thought — and a lot more than you had hoped! Not all the gossip has been accurate, and you’ll be relieved by what turns out to have been an exaggeration. Start doing some research on how to make the most of the connections you are building.

When settling a disagreement, try to channel your intellect rather than emotions. The more you let your temper flare, the harder it will be to think in a clear, unbiased way. Breathe slowly and collect your thoughts before blurting out something you might regret.

Take the opportunity now to check in on the status of your relationship. You’ll both have enough calmness and articulation to get real with each other.

Everyone has to start somewhere. You may feel like you’re a doormat, but that will make a great story once you’ve made it up the front steps and into the castle. Endure.