Someone you care a lot about could burst into your life and ask you for help that you’re uncomfortable giving, whether it’s too much money, too much time, or too much personal involvement. But any hesitation you feel is caused more by your own fears than reality. Despite your misgivings, you should open your heart and make time to do what they need you to do. You can’t let your own issues block you from being the generous and helpful person that your friends know you to be.

Instead of merely going out with hotties, try finding people who actually share your goals. There’s nothing wrong with infatuation at first sight, but it’ll last longer if you have something real to talk about.

You need to let your partner have their freak-out even if you think you might be able to help. Sometimes emotions just need to pop out on their own, and your interference won’t help.

If you want to only do the fun tasks, like those that are creative and interesting, then don’t be surprised that you’re not getting the big bucks. Making money can’t always be fun. Sometimes old-fashioned hard work is the only thing that pays off. Give it a try.