Avoiding conflict isn’t really your thing. You’d much rather have it out and move on. While some aren’t all that comfortable with this method, it works for you, except if the conflict is thanks to some misplaced feeling. Before you start to unload or process, take a good, long look at where it’s all coming from. It might have less to do with the other person than you think.

If you’ve been ruminating on past romances, take a break now. You have a broad range of options if you use your imagination, so don’t limit yourself.

If you’re feeling bored with the same old thing, start thinking about what you’d like to be doing instead. Toss some ideas around with your honey, then try out the ones that sound the most fun.

You know the drill — those who do well chatting over lunch do well financially. Force yourself to participate, even if you’re not feeling particularly social. It’s a pivotal day, and you don’t want to miss out.