See if you can forge a new relationship with one of your old relatives. Just because they’ve known you for years doesn’t mean that they really know who you are now. This is the perfect time to start from scratch with them. Pretend you’ve never met them before and pepper them with questions you never thought you needed to ask. You can connect in a deeper, more emotional way. Get to know them for who they are.

It’s hard to feel attractive when you’re all stressed out or exhausted. Make a plan to get things done and set a practical schedule for yourself. A little extra rest now ensures more romantic energy later.

Sometimes you have to hedge your bets; other times it’s all or nothing. Which approach does this situation call for? Talk it over with your partner. A discussion will illuminate what’s really at stake.

Avoid anything you feel with intensity. Even if you’re sure you can make a boatload today, you’re better off having nothing to do with it. The kind of lifelong ramifications that are hidden in the price tag makes it just not worth it at any price.