Why be in such a hurry to commit yourself, especially if you’re not ready? Take your time and survey all your prospects before you make a decision. Whether it’s money or an emotional commitment that’s on the line, there’s no need to put any undue pressure on yourself to make a choice before the time is right. Listen to what your instincts are telling you in this matter and keep mum about what move you want to make until you’re sure.

If you feel boxed in when it comes to romance, consider that old saw about the number of fish in the sea. Maybe you just need to try your luck in some different bodies of water!

Check your finances. You and your partner have bigger fish to fry, so curb any impulse to spend money on indulgent or frivolous matters. Spending money doesn’t lead to happiness. It just leads to more debt.

Wondering what your boss would think is not strictly paranoia. You never know who may be overhearing your conversation today. Treat everything you say as if it were more valuable than money, and only share with those who are the most deserving. Being a blabbermouth could really cost you.