Last-minute turnarounds have never been at the very top of your list of most favorite things, but that’s kind of the point: We don’t see it happening, so we have to reach deep inside ourselves to react, which gives us a chance to get to know ourselves all over again without anyone’s expectations about how we “should” be acting, based on what they think of us. Treat the incident like a learning opportunity and it can’t help but turn out to be just that.

Sometimes the whole enterprise of getting a relationship off the ground seems too time-consuming. Right now you’d rather be learning a language or traveling. Follow your desires. You’ll find love when you’re ready.

What’s more lovely then spending the evening in your lover’s arms? Stay in and get comfortable, there’s nothing outside that’s half as nice as what you’ve got at home.

You can’t get your mind off of your finances. The nagging feeling that you’ll be losing money is harassing you. You’re the only one who can keep it from ruining your day. Be forceful about not letting yourself dwell on the negative. No thoughts of anything red allowed.