If you are looking for someone to team up with, either in a romantic relationship or in a business context, don’t pick the first person who shows interest! You’d better shop around if you want to find the perfect partner or at least a partner who will be able to provide everything you truly need. It can be flattering when someone makes an effort to be a part of your life, but that doesn’t always mean they deserve to be there. It’s not only fine to be picky, it is smart to be picky!

Time is totally on your side, so don’t rush anything. Getting to know someone isn’t a sprint — it’s a slow process. Avoid revealing too much info too soon. Dates don’t need to know your address, sexual history or other uber-personal tidbits.

Make sure you’re comfortable with whatever you’re getting into. It’s like anything – you’re probably biting off more than you can chew, even if you can’t see it yet. Before you commit to any big plans, go over all the details. That goes for both of you!

You are running up and down the beach with the other investors. No, not as joggers or sunbathers, but as seagulls or baby crabs. Who knows what motivates the fears or confidence of others, but you have no choice but to run with the crowd.