You’ve got a few deep feelings about your career that aren’t going to go away any time soon. Deal with them by having a conversation with someone you trust. If you feel you’re in the wrong situation, talk to someone who has been through it before. While a co-worker or supervisor might seem like an obvious choice, avoid talking to anyone who is too close to your situation. They’re likely to have their own issues and agendas regarding you and your job.

Days can get hectic, but your challenge is to find calm. Opt for a yoga class instead of a high-energy kickboxing class, for example. Meet your best friend for a quiet dinner instead of catching up in a loud club.

You and your partner are probably going to spend more time talking than actually doing anything now, but that’s fine. You can get lost in the rhythms of your conversation.

Retirement seems like a distant dream. It may seem impossible that you’ll ever get that far, but you will, and faster than you think. You won’t have time to make up for your lack of foresight, either, so make your future a priority.