A rude or unpleasant person will make your morning very interesting — and give you a fresh perspective on where you are in your life right now. This person offers an example of what not to do… and seeing him or her in action will make you very grateful for the choices you have made in your life. Your diplomacy will serve you well as you take stock of all the gifts you have. Extend a kind hand to the people who use anger to hide their sadness.

This person laughed at your story. Problem is it wasn’t funny to you. Maybe you’ve blown this thing way out of proportion. Get your footing and clarify their reaction. Perhaps you’re both right.

Look for a way to channel your energy into a powerful experience for you and your partner. When you focus all your attention on each other, you can reach new levels of intimacy.

The most important thing you can do for your future self is to get organized today. Make it your priority. Everything else can wait, from family gatherings to socializing with friends.