If your relationships feel like they’re in a holding pattern, start thinking about the future. Where do you want your friendships and romantic partnership to go? The plans you formulate will be powerful reminders of the growth you’ve made and the growth you still want to make. Ten years from now, the people around you might be different, and you’ll need to be different too. Prioritize who you spend your time with based on who best fits into the future you want for yourself.

If you haven’t already done so, now is the best time to write down your needs and goals for your love life and beyond. Don’t get too picky. Jot down a few attainable results and get to work!

You think you know what you want, but you might actually want something completely different. Before you bounce your million and one ideas off your partner, take some time by yourself and figure it out.

It may seem like all you do is daydream and fantasize without ever actually accomplishing anything but this is just a phase. Consider it a planning phase and don’t let yourself get too frustrated with your lack of progress. You’ll stop thinking and start doing soon enough.