Make a connection with a stranger today. Smile, flirt, or start up a casual conversation. Having genuine contact with an unknown entity will give you some surprise perks. Being charming and friendly when you don’t have to could bring you upgrades, free extras, or maybe just a sweet little ego boost. Reach out and make a new friend. It’s all good, and it doesn’t have to be for long. Choose to have a pleasant experience instead of an average one.

Highlight what’s weird and wonderful (or weirdly wonderful) about you. In fact, play it up. You’re not lovable despite your “flaws”; your flaws are what make up the unique fingerprint of your personality.

Invite friends to join you and your partner for a movie night. You supply the popcorn and movie, and the dinner is potluck. Hosting a gathering as a couple makes it less work and more fun.

You spare no expense throwing a party for your favorite guests. Some appear as their most fervent hopes and wishes and others appear as your worst nightmare. But no matter how they look, you are a gracious host.