Join an activity group or a professional organization. It’s a good way to meet people with similar interests, especially when you’re in the mood to get out and mingle with like-minded people. It’s all well and good to be independent and self-sufficient, just not all the time. Romance might have to take a back seat to camaraderie. Dating games aren’t nearly as interesting as good conversation.

Let your sensuous side come out to play. Light some candles. Indulge in some chocolate. Make your bed with satin sheets. Appreciate all the earthy pleasures life has to offer.

Are you unconsciously expecting your partner to be responsible for your feelings? That’s a mighty big weight to carry. Placing too many expectations on someone inevitably leads to disappointment.

You’re not very sensitive when it comes to knowing how much money is going out on a daily basis and that’s causing serious problems. Your spending must be controlled if you want to stay afloat. If you can’t do it yourself then it’s time to cry Uncle and let someone else control the purse strings. There’s no shame in turning over all the books, including your checkbook.