Problems in your romantic life could be weighing on your mind today, dragging you away from the pleasurable events all around you. Unfortunately, the ball is in the other person’s court, so there isn’t anything you can do to alleviate the situation. Instead of stewing all day over something you can’t fix, share your woes with a good friend or sympathetic co-worker. The person you’re confiding in won’t really be able to help you, but they can make you feel better for the time being.

If things are particularly unclear in the love department, your well-meaning efforts to figure it out will only lead to further muddiness. Devote your time to improving your love karma by giving someone else a hand.

Yes, clearly you know what’s best for you and your partner, but bullying them won’t make them fall in love with your plan (or fall more in love with you). How about cleverly letting them think it’s their great idea?

You can make a bit of money today just by speaking up. And if you’re assertive, you’ll make double. And if you’re downright pushy — no, wait, the advice breaks down right about here. Remain polite at all costs.