You can be slow when it comes to making big decisions, and that can’t change just because someone in your life wants it to! There’s no point in rushing through things just to keep someone quiet. If you’re not clear on what you want to do, or you’re not confident about what’s going on, you have to hit the brakes. Convince the impatient person in your life that you know what you’re doing. They might need a little reassurance from you, so get ready to do some hand-holding.

Someone is your biggest fan. Has it ever occurred to you that all their cheers might be a sign of some deeper feelings? If you think you could respond in kind, it might be time to explore this option.

You’re tempted to hire a team of experts to deal with the things you and your partner can’t bring yourselves to tackle in this relationship. Remember that saying about too many cooks spoiling the broth? Heed it.

The slower you spend, the more time you have to think each purchase through. That means the things you buy are that much more meaningful — and that’s what really matters anyway. The extra calculating saves you money and earns you extra points.