You’ve recovered from an old or recent trauma, but it wasn’t easy, and you don’t want to go through anything like it ever again. Fortunately, events like those are quite rare in your world now, as is what you go through today, but for entirely different reasons. There’s a very interesting person on the horizon, someone you might actually find fascinating enough to think about getting to know better. If you’re game, go for it. There’s no doubt that they will be too.

Sign up for a volunteer project. As you paint a local school, help re-landscape your neighborhood park or deliver hot meals to those who need ’em, you’ll do a world of good — and meet other service-oriented people too!

If possible, spend time with mutual friends today. Group activities will energize both of you in the right way. If you spend time alone, you’ll find that you get along quite well, deferring fights indefinitely.

Your cave is your castle. Don’t let anyone convince you to spend a small fortune making it look any different than it is right this second. Others may think your decorating choices — or lack of them — are radical but you are fine with them, and that’s what counts.