When something confuses you, don’t get annoyed, get curious! Facts that don’t line up are clues that you should follow. For example, if there is confusion over cleanliness, perhaps you need to get rid of the clutter in your life. This could be a sign that you need to toss out the bad attitudes, negative feelings, and self-doubt you’ve been holding on to for far too long. Look to the things that give you pause in your daily routine. You might need to address them on a deeper level.

Don’t let those little quirks and nuggets of personality elude you. If something catches your eye in that dating app, pursue it. Even if you can’t figure out what it means, you’ll have a great excuse to start the conversation.

Work out the details of a new balance in your relationship. Go slowly and make a special effort to hear what your partner is really telling you.

You’re missing an important money saving avenue but don’t feel bad about overlooking it; it’s the kind of thing that takes some research to dig up. That’s exactly what you should be doing with your time. Use your monetary divining rod to lead you to your personal pot of saved gold.