Instead of focusing so much on where you want to be in one, two, or five years, start focusing more on the journey itself. After all, the journey is your daily life! Slow down and pay more attention to how you’re living now, not just how you want your life to be later. It’s too easy to get caught up in the rat race and the drive for more power or money. Once you reach your goals, will you have good friends to celebrate with? Put work aside and play a little.

Today is perfect for kicking back and taking things down a notch. Plan the perfect quiet night and just spend time relaxing at home. Get yummy takeout for dinner and catch up on your shows, then call up your BFFs.

Your emotions may be running the show at the moment, but if you can rein them in you’ll find you have uncanny insight into the inner workings of your relationship right now. Take a deep breath and take a look.

You feel overwhelmed by your person situation, but don’t miss the point of all the agony. It’s referred to as a correction for a reason, and you’re but a small part in the process.