Today, the cautious, humble side of you is telling you to stop for a moment to review the situation. Listen to this little voice inside of you and don’t let yourself get caught up in the moment. You shouldn’t be in any hurry to get anywhere right now, so take all the time you need to map out your plan of action. Things will go smoothly if you plan well, so be patient. Your hot opportunities are things you earned. They aren’t going anywhere.

Consider time and spatial details right now. A healthy curiosity in a blossoming love interest is one thing. A call or text is expected, but 30? That’s a whole other story. Don’t go overboard. Give this person space or you’ll suffocate them.

It must take forever to clean that glass house of yours. Put the kibosh on criticizing your friends’ dating disasters when you have a few in your own past. You don’t have the perfect relationship, so stop pretending you do!

You can indulge without being decadent. Know when to say you’ve had enough — of spending, of consuming, of living for the future, of whatever the issue of the day is. Go only so far and no further.