The simplest things will spark complex philosophizing today. If you notice a weed growing through the cracks in a sidewalk, you may suddenly start thinking about humankind’s struggles to overcome oppression. If a child grins and reveals a missing front tooth, your thoughts will turn to the folklore of the tooth fairy. Your brain is ready to go off on tangents in order to feed a curiosity that is new to you. Let yourself explore random ideas.

Leave them wanting more. Being too available to anyone right now puts you at a disadvantage. Create some tension, make your time valuable, and answer your phone at your leisure. The type of hotties you’re into love a challenge. Don’t disappoint!

Plan a mellow day to catch up with your partner. When you feel relaxed, you’ll both be able to talk about whatever is on your mind. Keep the mood light and enjoy each other’s company.

With all the self-control you have to exert to keep yourself from overspending, you need to let go in some other area of life. Deep conversations late into the night or daydreaming for hours are just what the doctor ordered.