Despite how much you love your family, you might have to let go of a family obligation today. There simply isn’t enough time in the day. They love you, so they’ll understand. But try to make sure it doesn’t happen again. Investigate some time management techniques so you won’t have to let down a parent or sibling again in the near future. You’ll do yourself no favors by dwelling on their disappointment. Just do what you need to do and then get back to your family as soon as you can.

Whether it’s an ex or a wayward sibling, you may have to cut the financial apron strings. By continuing to give this person money, you’re killing their self-esteem and forcing yourself into the dangerous role of enabler. Sure, it’s painful to say no, but the time has come to close the bank.

A little bit of serious thought will go a long way in this relationship. It’s time to think about what you want and where you see this situation going. After you get some clarity, talk things over with your partner.

You’re not a kid anymore, although you may feel like you’re in a candy store. You’re in such a big hurry to stuff yourself that you’re hardly a discerning consumer, and it shows. Try to grow up.