Someone who thinks that stories from their past apply to your life needs a reality check. This person truly wants to help you, so keep that in mind when you explain that you’re not interested in listening to any more tactless reminiscing or unsuitable advice. Some people just aren’t able to see that their “insight” isn’t helping or is, in fact, hurting. (Remember this the next time you want to use stories from your personal history as a way to give someone else guidance!)

You have tons of friends, and you’re certainly not the only single person among them. Start networking. Even if you don’t find a date, seek like-minded pals for a fresh perspective.

You don’t need extravagant gestures to make you happy. Let your loved know that you truly appreciate the little things they do for you. They will love to hear it from you.

Penny pinching is a habit that’s hard to break. You’ve gotten it down to a science and you’re not about to stop any time soon. There’s plenty to do today that’s free or cheap, so enjoy.