Let someone close to you know that you’re tired of tiptoeing around their temper, especially when it happens with increasing frequency over basically unimportant matters. It’s hurting your relationship in more ways than one, and this person needs to find another outlet for their feelings other than rage. You know that life’s too short, and having temper tantrums is definitely a big waste of time.

Romance and fun are always a great mix when planning that first date. Instead of dinner, go for something a little more creative. Take a long walk through a botanical garden or an art museum.

On the outside you’re all bravado, but inwardly, you have a few (or more) qualms about tackling this task. Share your feelings with your loved one. There’s no reason to force yourself if you’re not ready yet.

You don’t have to do everything. Let someone else make you a good dinner or give you a foot massage, and don’t feel guilty about it, either. It’s your turn to be taken care of like royalty.