You’ve got to drop the nice guy act — there’s a big difference between being nice and being kind. Nice people usually just try to get everyone to like them. Kindness, on the other hand, is doing or saying what is genuinely in the best interests of all parties involved, even though it may not be the easiest route. You’re nice when you want to appease people, but when you’re kind, you’re true to yourself.

Friends have a way of telling you exactly what you need to hear whether you want to or not. If you’re having second thoughts about jumping headfirst into the dating scene, why not ask your friends for advice?

Both your plans and your lover’s are finally gelling, but some of the small details still won’t obey your wishes. Don’t sweat it. There’s a reason the gray area exists. Let the universe work out the fine print right now.

Nothing is handed to you on a silver platter. You need to get your hands on the details, period. If you don’t see the information right away, then start digging. Go deeper and deeper until you unearth the nugget of info that you need.