Try not to control too much, today. Giving some power over to someone else might not be an easy thing for you to do, but it will be an awful lot healthier for you. Let go of some responsibilities and give yourself some breathing room. Let other people make the decisions. Let another team member decide on the strategy for moving forward. Let your partner decide how you’ll celebrate an anniversary. Give them a chance to put their spin on things.

Today, be gracious to friends who want to set you up on a date. Even though blind dates can be nerve-wracking, you never know when you might meet your next big romance by chance. Your pals know you best, so give them the opportunity to prove their Cupid capabilities.

Today your charm works wonders, so use it to smooth over petty grievances between you and your partner. The bigger picture needs more focus and attention than the little stuff. Be agreeable and understanding.

If you need to be alone, there’s no better time. You won’t be able to mind your own business or hole up on your own in another couple of days, so you might as well get it out of your system now. It’s a good way to conserve spending, too.