It might feel like you’re being told no an awful lot lately, but what makes you think that you should be hearing yes? You might need to deal with something that you don’t want to deal with, a tiny failure in the self-discipline department! Cut back on the vices in your life. Sure, sometimes you need to escape the blahs of the world. But make sure the way you choose to do so is healthy. Accept the fact that you can’t do whatever you want to do whenever you want to do it. It’s called maturity.

Find a moment and ask yourself what’s really behind your romantic choices these days. Did you turn down that date simply out of nervousness, for example? Be honest and you’ll make the right decisions.

If the two of you have different ideas about how to spend the day, rather than duke it out, why not each go your own way? Meet up afterward and compare notes. You’ll share, laugh, and feel great.

You’re overwhelmed on both a personal and financial level. Spending money seems to be a must, but it’s really not necessary. A bit of creativity works wonders on what you can contribute on a small budget.