You’re tired of the same old, same old. The routine. You’re so tired of it that in the middle of your intense little heart, you’re quite sure that if you don’t do something to change it soon, you won’t be any good to anyone. Not yourself, not your loved ones and certainly not the people who depend on your keen intuition and impeccable work skills to get them through the day.

Kissing seems benign enough, but it’s not. Don’t mess with the lips — swapping spit is a very intimate act that could lead to other things. Are you ready to open that floodgate? Maybe, maybe not. Just take your time and don’t kiss on the first date, for now.

Try to make sure you’re getting everything you want out of your relationship. It’s a good time for you to focus on the big picture and talk things over with your partner if you want to make a change.

There are many reasons to remember a date, and a romantic anniversary is just the most cliche. Today could be a meaningful one if you play your cards right. Don’t let it become just one of many others in a meaningless parade.