Everyone makes mistakes once in a while, so don’t be too rough on yourself. You can’t possibly stay on top of every little detail. If you forgot someone’s birthday, called an authority figure by the wrong name, or did some other equally embarrassing thing, don’t worry about it. Apologize, move on, and then distract yourself from the blunder by focusing on daily details and errands. Keep yourself busy and you’ll forget about not being perfect.

Make sense of what’s going on in your heart today. Your romantic history, your current needs, and your hopes for the future. Not only does it feel awesome, but it also prepares you for the next big thing.

You and your partner need to toss out what isn’t working in your relationship and get some new procedures in place. What you’ve got is too good, so don’t let old habits mess it up, okay?

Living through something as intense was a huge challenge, not to mention history in the making. Like bones buried and turned to fossils, you have your own deep emotions to deal with. Don’t let them turn to stone during your lifetime. Deal with them head on, just as you would the numbers.