If love feels like a competition, and you feel like you’ve been on the losing end of things for a while, what can you do to improve your game? Even if you’ve had your share of romantic disappointments, this isn’t the time to take a defeatist attitude. The stars can help restore your confidence and remind you that you’re in charge of your own destiny. Being at the right place at the right time helps, but recognizing your opportunities is what counts now.

Plenty of energy is flying back and forth between you and a potential love interest, but is it constructive? The sheer spectacle makes it too distracting to tell at first. Once the dust settles, reevaluate.

One of your bigger plans could fall through now, but don’t let it overwhelm the sweet stuff that remains. Take the time to appreciate all the things you like about each other and make a new plan.

You’ve done just about as much thinking as you can possibly do. Any more is only a delaying tactic. It’s time to put your money where your mouth is, or more accurately, where your thoughts are.