Talking you out of anything takes energy and time, so much time, in fact, that bringing along a distraction is a good idea for the other person. They need to be prepared to watch the paint dry and the grass grow while waiting for your answer. You’re proud of that too. So when someone close starts making noises that they’re going to change your mind, give them a break. Tell them it’s not happening. It’s only fair.

When was the last time you’ve looked closely at paint strokes? For your next date, meet up at a new gallery or modern art museum. Or go solo to an art opening and mingle with artists and collectors.

You and your partner are on the same page right now, and it should be pretty easy for the two of you to dream up some new plan that will make life easier or sweeter or both.

Everyone worries about things like taking care of a family, and conditions are never ideal. You may wonder if you’ll ever have the safety and stability you need. Even in these turbulent financial times, the message from your ancestors is yes.