You’re in a tight spot, desiring the safety and comfort of your familiar rituals and routines, but knowing deep down that it’s past time to pack up your camp and try something new. Stop fretting about what you think you ought to do and figure out what it is that you actually want to do. It’s always possible to compromise between your two desires as well. Maybe instead of quitting your job, you could just ask for a new project or responsibility.
A coupled-up pal wants to complain about their relationship. Let them. You can be simultaneously sympathetic and appreciative of how the grass isn’t always greener on the other side of that fence.
On paper, no one would ever think that you and your partner are a perfect match. However, you know better. It’s the little quirks that seem like they’d drive you apart that are actually the glue of this relationship.
Your bank account is empty and your credit cards are at their limit. Is this a Dickens novel or reality? Don’t let the mystical and reality merge any more than they already have.